Where Thanksgiving Feels Like Home

Celebrating warmth, family, and the homelike spirit of BeeHive Homes of New Mexico

As Thanksgiving approaches this Thursday, families across New Mexico are preparing for a holiday filled with familiar smells, shared laughter, and the comfort of being together. At BeeHive Homes of New Mexico, that same spirit fills our hallways long before the turkey hits the oven.

Because here, “home” isn’t just the place you live — it’s the way you’re welcomed, loved, and surrounded by people who feel like family.

A Homelike Setting Rooted in New Mexico Tradition

Walk inside a BeeHive Home this week and you’ll find more than seasonal decorations. You’ll find a warm kitchen with caregivers checking on rolls in the oven. You’ll hear residents swapping stories of past Thanksgivings — big family tables, bustling kitchens, and the dishes they made year after year.

And you’ll feel something else too: familiarity.

Our smaller, homelike setting means residents aren’t navigating long hallways or crowded dining rooms. Instead, they’re wrapped in the comfort of cozy living spaces, gentle conversations, and a pace of life that feels personal, peaceful, and truly “home.”

BeeHive Homes Thanksgiving Rolls and Deviled Eggs in New Mexico

Family-Friendly in Every Way

Thanksgiving at BeeHive Homes of New Mexico is designed to bring families together. Loved ones visit, grandchildren share big hugs, and caregivers help set out the very dishes that make the holiday feel real — mashed potatoes, fresh rolls, cranberry sauce, and yes, plenty of pie.

Some families bring recipes to share. Others bring memories. All bring love.

And just like any family home, there’s always room at the table.

A Week Filled With Gratitude

This week is often full of the small, meaningful moments that define BeeHive life:

residents helping with simple holiday prep
caregivers pausing to listen to stories that only come out this time of year
families stopping by after work to sneak a taste of dessert
fall crafts and gratitude boards made with visiting children
️ quiet reflections on the blessings of another year

Thanksgiving reminds us that joy lives in the everyday moments — the ones we’re grateful to share with the people who call BeeHive their home.

Care That Feels Like Family

Behind every holiday celebration at BeeHive Homes is a team of caregivers who treat residents like their own loved ones. They help with the little things — choosing an outfit for family photos, preparing a resident’s favorite dessert, offering a steady arm on the way to dinner — all delivered with genuine compassion.

This is what makes the BeeHive model so unique: care that’s personal, attentive, and rooted in connection.

Because when you’re surrounded by people who genuinely care for you, the holidays feel warmer, the meals taste sweeter, and every day becomes a little more meaningful.

Home for the Holidays — and Every Day After

Thanksgiving is a reminder of everything BeeHive Homes of New Mexico stands for: family, comfort, connection, and the deep sense of belonging that transforms assisted living into something more.

To all of our residents, families, caregivers, and community partners — thank you. Your love and presence make our homes feel full, joyful, and wonderfully alive this holiday season.

From our BeeHive family to yours,
Happy Thanksgiving.

Lessons of the Power of Gratitude

Gratitude is a powerful force. It can transform even the most challenging moments into opportunities for reflection and growth. A story shared by Gordon Green in a Reader’s Digest published in 1956 reminds us of this truth. It’s about a family on a Canadian farm whose Thanksgiving celebration taught them to find joy in life’s blessings—even when circumstances seemed dire.

The story begins with Gordon’s father leading the family in a tradition of taking inventory on Thanksgiving Day, counting the abundance of their harvest and livestock. This act wasn’t just practical; it was a way to reflect on how richly they had been blessed through their hard work and the grace of God. But the year Gordon remembered most wasn’t marked by abundance—it was the year they had almost nothing.

After devastating rains destroyed their crops, the family was left with little more than a patch of turnips and a jackrabbit for their Thanksgiving meal. In that difficult moment, Gordon’s father lit an old oil lamp and asked them to turn off their new electric lights. The dim glow reminded them of how far they had come and the blessings they still had. It wasn’t a feast of abundance, but the spirit of gratitude transformed their humble meal into something beautiful.

At BeeHive Homes, we embrace the power of gratitude every day, inspired by stories like Gordon’s. Gratitude shapes how we see the world, turning ordinary moments into extraordinary ones. Whether it’s enjoying a home-cooked meal, participating in a group activity, or simply sharing stories in our cozy common areas, we approach each day with a grateful heart.

The Benefits of Gratitude at BeeHive Homes

In our assisted living community, gratitude fosters connection, joy, and well-being. Here are just a few ways it impacts daily life:

Gratitude transforms challenges into lessons and scarcity into abundance. Just as Gordon’s family found richness in their modest Thanksgiving, our BeeHive Homes family finds joy and meaning in the moments we share together.

Come See the Difference Gratitude Makes

At BeeHive Homes, gratitude is at the heart of everything we do. It shapes how we care for our residents, nurture relationships, and create a home that feels truly special.

We invite you to experience the difference for yourself. Call us today at (505) 591-7022 to schedule a tour and see how BeeHive Homes approaches daily life with a grateful heart, creating a vibrant community where everyone feels valued and cared for.

Every day is an opportunity to celebrate life’s blessings at BeeHive Homes. Let us show you how we see things differently.

Gratitude

I know, Thanksgiving was last week.  That is precisely why I chose this week to write about gratitude.  My daughter pointed out to me on Black Friday that it's strange that people in our country say how thankful for everything they have on Thursday, and then go out and buy a whole lot more on Friday.  Now, I know that much of that buying is for gifts for others, and I'm not here to shame anyone for buying gifts, but it is strange, none-the-less if you think about it.

Gratitude is a tricky, slippery thing.  You can be grateful at the same time as wanting more.  If you're only able to afford beans or rice to eat, you can have gratitude that you have those things, but still be hopeful for steak or salmon in the near future.  And for some people, gratitude can become a warped thing because they're glad they have basic necessities covered, but they do not think they are deserving of anything more or that they ever will have anything more.  Once  that line is crossed, stinginess can set in.  One can be grateful for what one has, but hold too tightly to it & not be open to anything new or different because of it.   So, it's important to practice gratitude with thanksGIVING.

That was not a misprint.  Gratitude is the attitude that we  ought have about life, the people in it and our material goods.  Thanksgiving, on the other hand, should be an outward expression, an action.  An example of this would be to have gratitude, or be thankful for a bowl of rice in our bellies  Thanksgiving would be to express that gratitude using our voice and consider if there is someone else who might need some rice that day.  This may seem extreme to some, but it can be life changing.

When you have your next meal, and while you are eating it you find yourself grateful to have something to give you strength and energy for the day, that is a good thing.  If you eat it, however, and while you eat you think of a family that is struggling to put enough food on the table, or a widower who might not get a home cooked meal very often, or a food shelf in your area that is seeking donations, it amplifies your gratitude, but gives you a place to express that gratitude with giving, thankful giving.  Make an extra meal and bring it to someone, or bag up a bag of grocery items to drop off at the local food pantry.

How about when you're driving your vehicle & find yourself warm and cozy and glad that you haven't had vehicle troubles in awhile?  You could practice thanksgiving by paying for an oil change for someone who is driving a jalopy that is barely holding together, or even paying for a vehicle repair that they need done.

If you're reading an excellent book in your spare time, think of someone who might like to read it after you and pass it on instead of selling it on an online marketplace.

If you have plenty of warm clothing, pass some on to someone else who needs it, especially if they have children growing out of things every 3 months!

Even when it comes to mundane things like tax season, consider paying for a senior friend's taxes to be prepared for them so that they do not have to fret over how to pay for that on their fixed income.

There are so many things that we take for granted and do not even approach with gratitude because we've never thought  to be grateful to have enough money to pay to have our taxes prepared, for instance.  Despite how we feel about the  tax laws, we can find gratitude to have the ability to pay. If we practice enough, our gratefulness should have no limits.

Once we find gratitude, it shouldn't stop with us.  Giving should be a natural expression of gratitude, because we've all experienced what it is like to do without and not have quite enough.  When that need is met, there is a resting, a bit of relaxing that can take place inside. That relaxing is a bit of something that is beneficial for us and would be beneficial for our entire society!  While we cannot help everyone in the world, we can help at least one other person.  And once you start, it can become a bit addicting.  Giving something to someone that they truly need is actually quite fun.  Try it.  Do not limit yourself to giving just during the holidays, but all throughout the year, and you'll find yourself feeling more gratitude for what you have & more outward looking for needs that you can meet in your community!

7 Tangible Acts of Gratefulness 

 Gratitude That Changes Things

It’s that time of year again when people all over America are getting ready to celebrate Thanksgiving Day with friends and family.  We’ve begun to see that days of gratitude posts on social media, we’ve seen “gobs” of turkeys in the store (see what I did there…gobs/gobble?), and in some parts of the country we’ve started to fear that all the fall décor outside will be covered in snow before the big day.

Gratitude is an amazing thing.   It is genuinely good for you.  Many say that it has health benefits for the thankful ones.  Even if it doesn’t do anything for your health, it is good for you as you seek to be a more compassionate & empathetic person.  But, are there other ways that this season of gratitude could benefit those around us in need?  Saying we’re thankful is necessary & wonderful.  Showing that we’re thankful by what we do each day is even better, especially if we’re feeling less than thankful because of present circumstances.

So here are 7 ideas to show that you’re thankful for the life you’ve been given, even when the going is tough.

#1. Food.  This is usually a safe place to start.  If you live in America, chances are that you have had or will have a meal today.  Now, maybe it isn’t exactly what you would prefer.  Maybe you haven’t been able to go out to eat in a year or two, but you’ve most likely had food recently.  When you find yourself thankful for food, there are a variety of ways to express that appreciation by giving to others who are struggling.  Give to a food shelf or pantry.  Volunteer at a soup kitchen or for meals on wheels (trust me, they’re always looking for volunteers).  At the very least make a bit of something and share it with a neighbor or a friend that could use a hand because they work long hours or have been in the hospital.  If those don’t suit you, consider giving to charities like Heifer International to give the gift of animals or seeds to people in developing countries so that the investment keeps growing.

#2. Warmth.  If you are feeling especially grateful for the heat that you get to experience, especially if you live in a northern climate, consider giving warm gear to your local clothing drive.  Coats, snow pants, hats, scarves, gloves, etc. are usually accepted at coat drives for those struggling to stay warm or to clothe their children for the winter months.

#3.  Shelter.  How often do you walk into your home with overwhelming gratefulness to be out of the elements outside (whether it’s too cold, hot, or pouring cats & dogs)?  If you are grateful for shelter, consider that others would be grateful for the chance at shelter.  Most cities & even some smaller towns now have shelter for those in need.  Give a gift of money or something else that they’ve stated that they need.

#4.  Healthy relationships.  Sometimes being around people that have unhealthy relationships is enough to spur our thankfulness for those with whom we share a good relationship.  When you find yourself thankful in this way, consider helping those who are struggling in this way.  There are multiple battered women’s shelters & homes that help children transitioning out of abusive situations.  If you are really struck by the need of the children in these situations, consider more than just giving monetarily.  The need for foster parents in good homes is huge in every state in our country.  You could have a direct impact in their lives.  If that seems too extreme, perhaps a big brother/big sister program might be a better fit.

#5.  Education.  It’s always an option to contribute to scholarship funds for others who attended your high school or other less fortunate areas of the country.  Help someone else out in the same way in which you were helped!

#6.  Extended family.  Donating time or items to nursing homes is a great way to show thankfulness for those in our extended family that are elderly.  They are often looking for volunteers to help with activities, reading aloud, giving small concerts for residents, etc.  It can be a great way to give back.

#7.  Health.  If you’re extremely grateful for your health, consider giving to hospitals that do not charge their patients, like certain children’s hospitals.  They’re always looking for donations.  If you’re unable to give monetarily, perhaps volunteering might be an option, or making needed items like chemo hats or lap blankets.  Be sure to call in advance to be sure you’d be filling a need & not creating extra hassle with items that you’d make.

These are just a few ideas, but I’m fully confident that if you dwell on how thankful you are, you will probably come up with many more ideas that can show your thankfulness in tangible ways & help to make someone else’s life a bit more bearable.